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Livin’ the Life of a Sorta-Non-Traditional Student

Hey there. I’m the student that has gotten lost in the group. I’m the one no one really thinks about, and bloggers sure don’t post about. I’m the non-traditional, traditional, student. I can’t be classified as a normal non-traditional student because I’m not 30 and haven’t taken time off from school. But I’m not a normal student because I’ve never lived in a dorm, or participated in tons of on campus events. I am the non-traditional, traditional student.

1. I don’t live on campus, which means I get there right before my classes, and leave right after them. This is hard. I have a job with a set schedule, so I know I can’t doddle after class, but this also means whenever I have a group assignment, having to get all the way back to campus just to spend 45 minutes working on a project, I may not be absolutely delighted to be there.
2. I have a job. A job which helps me pay for college, my car, and all of my other expenses… because I’m doing it on my own with the help of loans. When a professor says there’s an extra credit opportunity or their office hours are only between X and Y time and those things happen to fall between my work hours… I’m screwed.
3. Just because I’m not involved in a ton of stuff doesn’t mean I have never wanted to. For me, I  always expected to play college soccer, and when I got hurt for the last time my senior year, I knew it wasn’t in the cards for me anymore. Sometimes, I wish I could have played and had somewhere I really belonged. But I don’t, and thats okay too.
4. Friends. All of my high school friends are in sororities, or playing college soccer, or at a school 5,000 miles away. Seeing as how I’m not on campus 24/7, how the hell am I supposed to make “college friends?” You have no idea. I’m so thankful for the few friends that are still around because making new ones, on a college campus, is hard as heck!
5. College is hard, but it’s even harder for someone who has had to go to community college, take things a little slower, work tons of hours each week, and maintain some sort of social life. There are so many blogs I follow where the girls are living/making it seem like they have the stereotypical college girl life, and that’s just not how things have been for me.

College is so different for everyone but I think a vast majority of people think all college students live the same lifestyle portrayed in movies. It is not that way for everyone! I struggle, a lot. Not because I don’t enjoy my life, because I LOVE the life I live. I struggle because it’s hard trying to live the life of an every day college student while trying to manage true adult life all at the same time.

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